September 30, 2008

Afraid of Commitment?

My roommate told me he was looking to buy a condo within the next year, and I asked him a question:

Where do you want to live for a really, really, really long time? ball and chain

I’m as afraid of commitment as the next Millenial, and even bargain foreclosures make me wring my hands with anxiety for the sheer length of time I’d need to hold onto that dream condo. In spite of everything happening on Wall Street, it still holds that if you buy property now, you will make a profit in a really, really, really long time. Some people don’t have that kind of patience, or will, to commit to a location for a decade or two.

Commitment-phobia is never a good quality if you’re an investor, but the problem with real estate is that you may actually live in your investment. If you get that condo on the lake, it’s going to be extremely cold. If you get that home off of 41, you will hear large trucks pass by at 3 a.m. But a two-bedroom condo for under $200k? Oh, what’s a twenty-something to do!

If you’re thinking of possible exit strategies (always have an exit strategy), consider renting, if things don’t work out with your location. My mother and I teamed up and cut her condo in half, renting out half with a kitchen, and keeping the other half as a grand hotel suite for when she visits the North. As a snowbird herself, she’s dealt with the commitment issue herself, and finds that renting is the best way to get that mortgage paid.

Also: never forget about the housing swap. If you have to get rid of a place that you buy and you know where you’re heading next, swapping similarly priced homes helps you avoid closing costs and bidding wars. As long as you can trust your swapping partner, this is a solid way to save some worry.

There; you have yourself an exit strategy, now go snatch that sweet foreclosure.

1945 Jackson Ave
Evanston, IL 60201

Price: $174,800
Beds: 5 On Redfin: 104 days

739 Lamon Ave
Wilmette, IL 60091

Price: $344,900
Beds: - On Redfin: 35 days
Baths: 2 Year Built: 1958
Baths: 2


  • Kristin

    Cute analogy & picture! Where do you get your ideas? I love reading your clever articles.

    As for me, I'm committed to being a renter for a really, really, really long time.

  • Alexis

    a. I went to a cupcake wedding that was amazing.

    b. you have to wonder, in this climate, who believes him/herself to have the job security to know that he/she should buy anyway. As far as I'm concerned I should cover my teeth in gold and keep canned goods in my cabinet the way things are going.

  • In lieu of the economy, the prerequisite for affording a condo is that you first must be employed.

    As for the condo situation; imagine a dorm room with really nice restaurants outside.

  • kendall

    also, about your mom's condo in boston: can you tell me a little more about it? how did she split it? does half of the condo lack a kitchen? how does that work when the kitchenless side wants eggs in the morning?

  • kendall

    god, how old is your roommate? how can he afford a condo?

  • lowcajones

    so glad im a poor grad student and can barely afford rent. is there some kind of option like this for long term renters other than moving?

  • Ximena

    I can't commit. I love to wander so condo buying shall not be in my near future!

  • morgan

    although i am jealous of my condo friends, and they seem to just get more and more affordable due to the market, i cant quite wrap my head around a permanent living situation. maybe i am a commitment- phobe? but lord...what prices!

  • The funny thing about home swaps and the "real" value of your home is, it's only based on how much money someone is willing to spend on your home. Assessments are for taxes and give you a decent idea, but hardly reflects that elusive "value" you want to place on what you own.

  • hahaha...my friend did a home swap, it actually went ok, but he'll never know if he "lost" money on the deal or not.

  • John B.

    By the way, anyone who would have cupcakes at their wedding is headed for disaster, anyway.

  • John B.

    I'd rather buy property than get married. Look at it that way.

  • Christi

    I am the same way. I could technically "afford" a condo, but am horrified at the work that would go into buying and keeping it. Knowing me, I'll totally miss the best time to buy, too.

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