April 8, 2008

Real Estate Lessons From My Sister

My sister, Liz, age 44, is a great real estate role model.  She and her husband, Ray, have a combined income in the mid five figures, but they’re in better shape financially than most people. 

How do they do it?  It’s simple, yet many people (especially in California) wouldn’t be able to follow their lead. Real Estate Lessons From My Sister

1) They’re not materialistic.
2) They’re not status-conscious.
3) They live within their means.

Liz and Ray bought a 50-year-old three-bedroom, 1.5 bath, 1,400-square-foot home on a quarter-acre lot in Blue Bell, Pennsylvania, for $150,000 nine years ago.  They refinanced to a 15-year loan several years later and owe around $75,000 on it now.  It’s worth around $260,000. Their monthly payment, including taxes and insurance, is $1,150.

The house isn’t large, but they’ve made a lot of nice improvements, all paid for in cash: oversized sliding doors; a wood stove (which they use to heat the house; they haven’t used their furnace in two winters); and a great yard (Ray is a landscaper for the city of Philadelphia). Real Estate Lessons From My Sister It’s also in a lovely, quiet suburban neighborhood with excellent schools.

While raising two boys and two German shepherds, they even managed to put aside enough money to buy seven acres in the Poconos. They’re hoping to build a small cabin there that they can use as a retreat on weekends.

They have three vehicles — a 10-year-old Honda CR-V, a 16-year-old Toyota Previa and a 20-year-old pickup — all purchased used, for cash. Other than the house, they have no debt.

In a few years they’ll have the house paid off and be ready to live off their savings, pensions and Social Security. 

Liz and Ray are the perfect homeowner candidates.  They bought the house to live in, not as an investment.  Instead of taking money out of the house, they put money into it — while paying down the mortgage.  Think of all the extra money they’ll have in retirement because they don’t have a monthly housing payment.

Anyone can do what Liz and Ray do.  But most people don’t have her discipline and impulse control.  She’ll never own a BMW, but she has peace of mind, which no amount of money can give you.

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  • Thanks Bahn... it's nice to be reassured everything is going to be okay :)

    Excuse me while I go hit my head against the desk... repeatedly.
  • Thanks to Dillon, Karen and Phyllis for your comments! My sister is going to be flattered that you Californians think she is a role model. I have read "The Millionaire Next Door" as well, and although Liz and Ray may not end up quite millionaires, they have followed the main principles of the book, namely living frugally and sensibly. A lot of people who look prosperous are actually drowning in debt.

    I do think it's still possible to get a house in California and pay it off. You just have to be willing to adjust your sights. What's more important: owning a lavish home or one that you can own outright?
  • Patterned after the "Millionaire Next Door" (the book) - This is a GREAT post!
  • Karen
    Thank you for sharing about your sister. It is possible to do this in Southern California (maybe not for the price you sister paid), especially if one can resist that siren song of "keeping up with the Jones," or what one thinks the Jones are up to. I adopt a sort of anti-status, meaning I don't care what others might think or expect from us as homeowners in a somewhat fashionable area.
  • Dillon
    Kudos to Liz and Ray!

    The same could've been done here in Southern California. Nine years ago, 150K for a 3/1.5 is doable in the more outer areas, or for fixers and condos that are more centrally located. Prices didn't really skyrocket until after 2000. I see both single families and condos listed in Redfin that have a last sales date in the 1990s for less than 200k.

    Liz and Ray's lifestyle is how normal people get "rich." I bet they'll be millionaires by the time they retire. Check out the book _The Millionaire Next Door_.
  • Julie, you live in Orange County. You're doomed :)
  • Yes, your sis is a great role model! However, for those that relate to their spending philosophy but yet live in CA... it's a little depressing :)

    No matter how hard we try, sometimes I wonder if we'll ever have that house that we want to raise a family in and grow old in.

    Either way, great story, and inspirational. Thanks.
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